✅ Compatibility Status
Cleared as of: 6/2/26
Latest Sims 4 Game Patch: 5/21/2026
PC: 1.124.63.1020 / Mac: 1.124.63.1220
Console: 2.34
This mod has been checked against the latest Sims 4 update and is currently cleared for use unless otherwise noted.
a jayesims media original
we talking dating fr.
the real stages. the shifts. the questions. the tension. the “what are we?” energy.
this mod brings that first year of dating into your game:
the vibes, the closeness, the arguments, the boundaries, the future talks… all of it.
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⚠️ IMPORTANT:
you MUST click “Actively Dating This Sim” first
this gives both sims the Currently Dating trait
and unlocks all the interactions.
no trait = nothing shows up.
learning each other
figuring it out in real time
dealing with the good AND the awkward parts
this is just the beginning too…
we expanding this way further
tap in.
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🧩 If the XML Injector is not installed, certain interactions, buffs, and trait features will not appear or work as intended.
📥 You can download the XML Injector here (by Scumbumbo/Triplis):
https://scumbumbomods.com/xml-injector
Place it directly in your Mods folder (no more than one subfolder deep).
⚠️ Important Installation Rule
Each mod comes in two versions:
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User‑Directed Version
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Autonomous Version
You must choose ONE version only.
Do NOT place both versions in your Mods folder at the same time.
Having both installed will cause conflicts, missing interactions, or unexpected behavior.
AUTO Version
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“Auto” means the actions happen autonomously (without you controlling it).
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Just like how Sims have a mind of their own.
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So yes, you will usually NOT see pie menus for mods/files that you downloaded that say AUTO. That’s normal.
User Directed Version