Created for me and my friends, this ~80 mod modpack has some quality-of-life mods, mainly Charm, some global mods, listed above, some structures, mainly from YUNG, and some of pretty much every nice feature.
Totally works with 1GB ram allocated. Yes, I tested. Yes, I have decent PC components, and it was on 60 fps for me.
For multiplayer, use the latest 1.18.2 fabric server and just shove all the mods in there. Yes, some of them are client-side or server-side only, but it works like this without problems, so I don't want to overcomplicate. Nothing stopping you from wasting half an hour on sorting them out, tho. No idea if this will help.
Small bug: If you want to store fluids in the AE2 interface, remove the mod Mouse Tweaks both from server and client, else it won't work right.

