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GridSmartNames is a Grid plugin that allows customization of player names, and coloring of names to match the border indicator.
I created it as a project for learning Ace3 and LUA, so if I've done something particularly boneheaded in the code, that's why.
To customize someone's name in your Grid display, enable Smart Names and simply add an alias.